10 Signs Your Relationship Is Making You Unhappy

10 Signs Your Relationship Is Making You Unhappy

Are you wondering if your relationship is making you unhappy?

Believe it or not, the underlying reason many people stick in unhappy relationships is the fear of being alone and insecurity.

Wait…

Can I be totally honest with you?

The truth of the matter is that you go into relationships with the intention to have a sound support system and peace of mind.

But…

What if you can’t get the peace of mind and happiness you deserve?

Well, that is why it is vital to know when a relationship is no longer serving you and when to let it go. 

In this article, we’ll show you the top ten signs your relationship is making you unhappy, and it time to let go.

So without further ado, let’s get started…

1. Whenever you think of them, you feel a heaviness in your chest

If the thought of them makes you feel bad, it is time to let them go.

At the same time, if the idea of seeing them gives you a sad, awful feeling, let them go.

You should naturally be excited to see the person you care about, not dreading it. 

2. They make you feel bad

If you feel awful after talking to them, let them go.

This is a clear sign that your relationship is making you unhappy.

For one thing, your relationship should make you feel better and happy about yourself and not worse. 

3. There is no more fight left in you 

Every relationship has its up and down.

In fact, fighting to keep the connection alive is all part of being in a relationship.

Still, if you realize you no longer feel the obligation to fight to keep it alive, it means the entire relationship makes you unhappy.

First off, you either need to discuss how you feel with your partner or move on. 

4. You prefer to hang out with friends and family over your partner

We naturally want to spend time with those who make us happy, so if you do not desire to spend time with your partner, there is your sign that your relationship is making you unhappy. 

5. You hate going home to them

In fact, you just don’t want to spend time in the same house with them.

And what’s worse?

You sometimes daydream about what it will feel like to move out of the house without telling them. 

In this case, It is over, you’re unhappy in the relationship, and it is time to go.

6. You are not comfortable being yourself 

Any relationship where you have to hide who you are for them to accept you is not a happy one to be in.

Here’s all you have to do:

Talk to your partner and come to a conclusion where you can go back to being yourself like it was at the beginning of the relationship, instead of being what he or she wants you to be.

If you can’t reach a favorable decision that favors you, it’s time to move on. 

7. You don’t trust them

If you have to snoop to figure out what is going on in your partner’s lives or who they are talking to, you don’t trust them.

Let me say this straight:

Your lack of trust will make you more upset and unhappy, so end the relationship before it gets worse, and you fall into depression. 

8. You imagine a life where you are happier without your partner

Let’s face it.

Everyone deserves a happier life, and if you imagine one without your current partner, make that happen and be more satisfied. 

9. You miss what you and your partner used to be

This is one of the significant signs you are unhappy with your partner. Inasmuch as you crave a different life from what you have now, it’s time to change it. 

10. You are no longer sexually attracted to them 

You should want to have a consistent, healthy s*x life with your partner, but if you really dread spending time sexually with them, you need to reconsider your relationship with them and how happy you really are. 

P.S. 7 signs your partner is cheating, and 7 reasons you should never beg for love.