In this new guide, you’ll learn: the seven types of toxic people to stay far away from.
Studies say: ‘’we are the average of the five people we hang around the most”,
In other words:
If you want to know why you think the way you do and act the way you do, look at the people you spend most of your time with and question what they bring to the relationship.
Just think about it.
Are you struggling to let go of people because you are not sure about whether they are toxic or not?
Well, don’t worry.
I will show you the types of toxic people you should stay far away from.
Let’s get started.
1. Negative nancies
If you have a friend that always sees the world through a dark lens, let them go.
Why? Because they are toxic friends.
To be completely honest:
It is exhausting to always focus on the dark side of life.
Every human being requires a level of balance between positivity and negativity.
You can’t just immerse yourself in negative things alone and expect to have a happy life.
It doesn’t work like that.
In reality, the energy you put out there is the energy you receive.
If you want a more positive, happy life: you have to let go of that friend that is always negative and has no intention of changing their mindset.
2. The demanding friend who always wants to be the center of attention
The truth is:
If your friend demands your time, money, and your literal mind space, let them go.
Particularly, if they want you to do only the things they want or think like them or focus on the ideas they love, stay away from them.
Think about this for a moment:
Your resources and mind space are all yours to do with as you please.
In fact, you don’t owe anyone these resources unless you choose to give them to them, and you don’t have to feel bad if you don’t want to share them every time.
I hope you can understand what I have just said.
The bottom line is:
Your demanding friend that always wants to be the center of attention is a toxic person to stay far away from.
Keep reading: 9 Signs of a toxic relationship you should never ignore.
3. The gossiper
Did you know that gossipers are types of toxic people to stay far away from?
If they talk to you about someone else, they will also talk about you with that someone.
In other words:
Anyone who can trash-talk others that have not done anything terrible to them will trash-talk you when a hurdle arises in your relationship.
In fact, they will spread rumors about your private or personal business to others.
Therefore, it is SUPER important to stay away from people with such a nasty habit as gossiping.
4. Selfish people
Yet another type of toxic people to stay far away from: are selfish people.
Of course, people that only take from you but never give in return when you need their help are selfish people you should cut ties with.
Ask yourself these questions:
You are not gaining anything from them anyway, so why keep them if all they think about is themselves but expect you to show up for them when they need you?.
5. Entitled people
News flash: No one is entitled to your resources.
You should give freely and kindly because you are blessed enough to do so.
Don’t let qualified people who don’t do anything valuable for you to convince you.
You are a terrible person because you refuse to encourage their entitlement mentality.
Let them go and free your mind of such toxic people.
6. Blame shifters
Blame shifters are types of toxic people to stay far away from.
For a relationship of any kind to thrive, we have to take responsibility for our actions and contributions to the situation that plague the relationship.
But if you notice, you are always the one taking the fall for someone else’s steps.
Then go shallow contact with them until they work to change their behaviors.
… And if they don’t change, go no contact with them and move on with your life.
7. The envious
If you can sense envy coming from your friend or family, stay away from them.
Keep this in mind:
The people in your life should want to see you do better in life and not be envious of your success.
Momentary envy from a friend who vocalizes it and moves on to congratulating you because they are genuinely happy for you but had a moment of weakness does not always mean that person is an awful person to be around.
The simple truth is:
The envious people you should stay away from are those trying to make you feel bad for succeeding or trying to upstage you or try to diminish your success.
Let those people go. You don’t need that toxic energy in your life.
To sum up
These were all the seven types of toxic people to stay far away from.
A word of caution: If you have any toxic friends or family members, stay far away from them in order to be happy and live a long life.
Keep on reading: 8 Signs you grew up with a toxic parent.