The Benefits of Discipline Your Child and How to Get Started

The Benefits of Discipline Your Child and How to Get Started

Discipline is defined as the practice of teaching people to obey rules or be more able to control themselves, using punishment to correct disobedience.

Discipline is a practice that is used by society to keep peace and order where it should be.

The law court passes judgment according to the crime done for the offended to feel the weight of their offense and perhaps change their ways.

In every association on earth governed by humans, mistakes are bound to happen, and innocent people suffer for the mistakes of others.

People are convicted unjustly and end up learning the wrong lessons. 

Why it is important to discipline your child?

As a parent, your job is to raise your children to be well-behaved children who eventually become responsible adults, so try to avoid punishing your child wrongly.

Don’t make mistakes that will teach them the wrong values. 

The benefits of disciplining a child

Here are the benefits of disciplining a child:

  1. Discipline teaches your child to make better decisions for themselves.
  2. Discipline helps your child stay safe instead of putting themselves in danger. The world is a scary and means place, and an undisciplined child will not pay attention to the dangers of disobeying the rules and laws that govern the world. And that can lead the child to a place of danger, for example, A child may ignore the rules of not entering a stranger’s car, and that can lead to terrible things happening to him or her, such as kidnapping, human trafficking, rape, etc. A child may ignore the rule of learning, and that can lead to failure in school, etc. A child may ignore the rules of looking at both sides of the road before crossing, and that can lead to accidents.
  3. Discipline teaches your child how to manage his or her emotions appropriately. A disciplined child understands that not every discomfort deserves a cry, a shout, or an expression of anger, such as destroying things.
  4. Discipline teaches your child that when mummy or daddy says NO to something, there is a good reason, and they can ask for the reason at the right time, which may not be right away. This lesson helps them navigate the world as adults, for example, People will tell you NO in this world, and knowing how to manage rejection appropriately is a fantastic way to survive this world.
  5. Discipline will help your child manage his or her anxiety correctly
  6. Discipline teaches your child obedience.
  7. Discipline teaches your child perseverance irrespective of procrastination, delay, or difficulty in achieving a task assigned to him or her.
  8. Discipline grooms your child for adulthood.
  9. Discipline teaches your child the value of delayed gratification.
  10. Discipline teaches self-restraint and the value of perspective.

How To Discipline Your Child

Here are ways to discipline a child that won’t listen: 

1. Discipline them from a place of love

Remember, you are trying to teach them values for the future, not pouring all your frustration on them.

They are little humans, and they are not responsible for how you feel.

You are in charge of your feelings, irrespective of what your children have done.

Please, don’t harm your children all in the name of discipline, okay?.

Approach your discipline style from a place of love.

2. Don’t give in to temper tantrums

You are the parent, and a temper tantrum is used by a child to test how far they can go to get something or get away with something.

Your job as a parent is to teach them that throwing a tantrum won’t make you change your position on a thing, and throwing a tantrum will only get them to be on time out or doing more chores. 

The world does not listen to temper tantrums, and they have to learn to manage their tempers as kids, so adulthood will not be difficult for them, for instance:

  • An adult who throws a tantrum at work because they don’t like the idea their boss presented to them for his company will get fired.
  • A spouse who throws tantrums like a baby will remain single for the rest of his or her life. 

Nobody likes an adult who whines and cries because they didn’t get what they wanted.

3. Don’t let your child eat whatever he or she wants

Letting your child eat whatever can lead to serious health issues such as malnutrition, increase risk of diabetes, teeth problems from excess sugary consumption, being overweight or underweight e.t.c. 

4. Tell your child the consequence of doing something wrong: 

This will make them understand where you are coming from, that you are not just a mean person who is trying to spoil their fun.

For instance, 

  • If your child is playing with fire, tell them it will burn them and cause them pain. You can show them pictures of minor burns on the internet, so they understand what you are talking about.
  • If your child is jumping up on the bed, tell him or her to stop jumping because he or she may fall and hit their head.

5. Give your child a chore to do daily

Having a daily task teaches children the value of time management and work ethic. As they grow older, give them tasks that teach them life-saving skills such as cooking, cleaning, washing their clothes, first aid training e.t.c. 

6. Time out

Time out is a type of punishment that can be used when a child breaks a particular rule.

Telling your child to take time out for a definite time or you ask him or her to set a time frame when they are ready to calm down and tell you what they have learned from their time out towards the behavior that landed them there. 

  • Time out teaches the child to take a step out of a situation before it becomes seriously heated.
  • Time out teaches the child the value of perspective and introspection.
  • It also teaches the child self-restraint.

7. Take away something they love for some time

Children can push all limits if you let them, including dangerous ones.

Taking away something they love or not getting them something you promised them when they break a rule will teach them that obeying specific standards is necessary. 

8. Keep your child busy

Kids sometimes misbehave because they have nothing to do, and they are bored.

Giving them something creative to do that is also fun is an excellent way to help their creative juices flow while having fun and out of trouble.

9. Appreciate your child when they do the right things

Punishing your child when they misbehave is okay, but so is noticing their efforts.

This teaches them that being kind is a good thing and has benefits.

It boosts your child’s self-esteem and makes them feel good about themselves.

10. Ignore bad behaviors once in a while

Shock your kids at times. When they are expecting you to react and punish them, take a step back and let them off the hook.

You can keep quiet about that bad behavior for a while.

It teaches their little conscience to feel bad and understand that their behavior is terrible, and they also hurt mummy or daddy when they do the wrong thing.

Final word

Discipline is a precious practice a parent or guardian can give to a child.

Children learn most from what you do than what you tell them, so make sure you keep your house rules as well.

There is a famous saying: “if you don’t discipline your children when they are young, the world will discipline them when they are grown, and the world is not as kind as you.”