This is the ultimate guide to understanding the signs of an incompatible relationship.
So if you want to know:
- If you are incompatible with your partner
- Whether you and your partner can get along or not
- If you and your partner belong together
- If your relationship is worth saving
Then you’ll love this article.
Let’s get started.
What is a compatibility relationship?
A compatibility relationship means “you get along well with your partner.”
In a broad sense, being compatible in a relationship means you and your partner work well together, enjoy each other chemistry, and have a good quality time with each other.
Think of it this way:
- You genuinely love to enjoy being around each other.
- You like the same thing. For example, you like to eat the same food
- You all have similar views on marriage and children.
- You accept and understand each other’s choices and goals.
There’s a famous saying that “You may have compatibility without love, but you can’t have love without compatibility.”
And that’s is a simple truth, believe it or not.
What does it mean to be incompatible relationships?
Incompatible relationships simply mean you and your partner are so different in nature to the point of being incapable of coexisting together.
For instance, when there is a lack of trust and poor communication between you and your partner.
Let me say this straight:
Being strongly attracted to someone doesn’t always mean you are happy with them or suitable for you.
Whenever you are getting into a relationship, it is super important to determine whether if you both partners are actually compatible or not.
The earlier you determine, the better is it for your relationship.
Sound silly? It’s not.
Because if you find out that both of you are incompatible after 5-6 years of dating or after getting married, then it will be really heartbreaking and terrible for both of you.
That said, let’s take a look at the early signs that can help you decide if both of you are incompatible with each other or not.
Signs of an incompatible relationship
Sign #1. You have a different sense of humor
If you and your partner have a completely different sense of humor, it is an early sign that your relationship is incompatible.
Let me explain:
When you are in a relationship, you are going to spend a lot of time together doing different activities and playing around with each other.
In the midst of all of this, if you have a different sense of humor, you will find each other boring and uninteresting.
In other words, both of you will not like the jokes & funny thoughts of each other because you have a different sense of humor.
For instance, whenever one partner will tell a joke or do something funny, the other partner will just find it unfunny & boring because they have no interest in such things due to having a different sense of humor.
In short, this means there are no deep connections in your relationship.
Here why having the same sense of humor is important in a relationship:
When you have a similar sense of humor, you will love the time you will spend with each other.
You will find each other funny, interesting, and attractive.
Bottom line: you need to analyze whether if both of you have a similar sense of humor or not.
Sign #2. You have different future plans
One of the significant reasons many relationships break up is that both partners have different future plans & goals.
Take a look at this scenario:
In the beginning, they hesitate to ask each other about their future goals and plans because they are afraid that their partner might leave them.
So they assume many things themselves and raise their expectations without even asking their partner about them.
Later on, when they realize the reality, they just get disappointed, frustrated, and break up the relationship.
Just think about it.
Why do I say this?
Whether you want to marry your partner or have kids with them, just tell them about your future plans with them & see if they are willing to get along with you or not.
Doing this is much better than realizing 5 or 6 years later that your partner does not want to have kids with you or marry you.
This will help you determine whether if your relationship will be compatible or incompatible in the future.
Sign #3. If you don’t respect your differences
Honestly, the key to a strong & compatible relationship is that both partners must respect the differences of each other.
Let’s look at it in detail:
It is a well-known fact that all human beings on this planet are different from each other in certain aspects.
All of us have different preferences about certain things.
For example, if one partner has no interest either in politics, playing video, drinking, or watching movies, then it’s just completely okay and their choice.
The other partner must respect it.
There’s no way that one partner should be hurling abuses and mocking the other partner for having a different opinion or different preferences. Both of them must respect each other.
You got the point, right?
In a nutshell, if both of your partners don’t respect the difference of each other, then it is an early sign of an incompatible relationship.
Sign #4. You don’t communicate with each other
Communication is one of the essential keys to keep a relationship healthy & stable.
Ever wondered why most couples split up after several years of dating?
In short, experts say poor communication is the most common reason many couples break up.
Here is why communication is the key to your relationship:
When you communicate with each other, you get to know each other, and when you get to know each other, you develop love and interest in each other.
In general, it strengthens your relationship and is a sign that both of you are compatible.
On the other hand, if there’s no communication between you and your partner, you both don’t have much love and interest in each other.
You don’t like to express your thoughts, feelings, and emotions to each other.
All this predicts that your relationship won’t be compatible in the future.
These were some of the best early signs of an incompatible relationship.
If you have found any of these factors disturbing your relationship, the first thing you need to do is relax and try to sort things out.
Try to analyze your relationship and detect where the fault is coming from?
How can you fix it?
Try to communicate with each other & spend time together doing your favorite things as much as you can.
You can even go for therapy or seek help from each other.
It will help you revive your relationship and make it stronger and better than ever.
However, if you have tried every possible method to recover your relationship, and now your relationship is making your life more toxic/difficult.
It is better to move away from such a relationship.
Keep yourself surrounded by positivity and avoid exposure to negativity and toxicity.
It will keep your life happy & peaceful.