Most men can’t handle strong women because of several reasons, here are 8 of those reasons.
1. He Has Low Self Esteem.
Most men who struggle with low self-esteem either turn to abusive ways to try to make a strong woman feel less than, so they can feel better about themselves or they avoid strong women altogether because they feel intimidated by them.
2. She Doesn’t Need Him To Survive.
Strong, independent women have their lives together. They go out into the world to make things happen for themselves and those they love, but some men can’t stand these characteristics of a strong woman because they feel a woman should depend on them, which is not the case. A strong woman doesn’t need you, but she wants you.
3. A Strong Woman Wants To Talk About Money And How It Relates To Both Parties In A Relationship.
Most men shy away from financial conversations due to multiple reasons. One of these reasons is their beliefs around money, but being with a strong woman forces them to talk about money.
A strong woman has already gotten her mindset towards money right and her entire finances together, so she wants a man who is trying to fix his finances. Only men who have dealt with their financial bias and have secure financial habits love this trait in a strong woman.
4. She Requires Vulnerability And Honesty.
Men who want to play around or struggle with being vulnerable within a committed relationship find this turn-off trait.
5. She Knows What She Wants.
Some men prefer to be the ones asking their women out. They prefer to help the woman they are with find themselves, but they already know what they want with strong women. If they’re going to be with you, they will hint it or outrightly come out and tell you they desire you. They take charge when necessary to make the relationship with you work out. Only a confident and secure man can handle these personality traits.
6. She Knows When You Are Lying.
Men who lie can’t stand this trait in strong women. That’s why they stay away because they know she is smart enough to catch them in their lies or try to amp up the truth.
7. She Enjoys Intimacy.
She is comfortable with her body and her femininity. She knows how to express herself sexually and verbally. She wants to make love to you with her body, mind, and words. This scares certain men away because she expects the same thing from her man. She wants her man to be in sync with her in all areas that their lives intersect.
8. He Fears Disrespect.
Most men believe if a woman can handle her life without their help, she will most likely disrespect them, but that’s usually not the case. The majority of the time, it’s the men’s insecurities playing out. Know that anybody can disrespect you.
Having a lot or little doesn’t matter. A disrespectful person is a rude person. A person with self-respect and kindness in their heart respects all human beings equally. Disrespect is not gender-specific or a characteristic of strength. It is a trait of weakness.