Using Your Pain to Minister to Others — Luke 22:31–32
Pain is a part of life. No one escapes it. Whether it’s physical pain, emotional wounds, spiritual struggles, or deep disappointment, we all face moments of brokenness. But what if your pain isn’t just something to survive? What if it’s something God can use to shape you—and to help others?
In Luke 22:31–32, Jesus speaks powerful words to Simon Peter:
“Simon, Simon, Satan has asked to sift all of you as wheat. But I have prayed for you, Simon, that your faith may not fail. And when you have turned back, strengthen your brothers.”
This passage teaches us a key truth: God can turn our personal pain into a purpose. Even your darkest trial can become a tool in His hands.
The Pain Peter Faced
Before Jesus went to the cross, He warned Peter that a difficult test was coming. Jesus didn’t promise Peter a way out of the trial. Instead, He promised something deeper—His prayers and His presence.
Peter would fall. He would deny Jesus. He would feel shame, regret, and sorrow. But Jesus knew something Peter didn’t know yet. His failure would not be the end of his story. His pain would become a path to ministry.
Your Pain Is Not Wasted
Whatever you’re walking through right now—sickness, grief, heartbreak, financial loss—know this: it is not wasted. In God’s hands, pain becomes preparation.
Think about it. How many people are encouraged by those who have “been there”? When someone who has suffered talks about how God sustained them, it offers real hope. Their testimony becomes a lifeline to someone else who feels like giving up.
Paul writes in 2 Corinthians 1:4 that God “comforts us in all our troubles, so that we can comfort those in any trouble with the comfort we ourselves receive from God.”
In other words, your healing helps others heal.
Jesus Intercedes for You
Notice something powerful in Luke 22: Jesus tells Peter, “I have prayed for you.” Before Peter even failed, Jesus was already praying.
That same Jesus prays for you today. Hebrews 7:25 says that Christ “always lives to intercede” for those who come to God through Him. You are not alone. Your struggle is not unseen.
And just like Peter, you will not stay in that dark place forever.
When You Come Back, Strengthen Others
Jesus said, “And when you have turned back, strengthen your brothers.”
Not if, but when.
Jesus knew Peter would return. He also gave him a mission—to use what he learned to lift others up.
That’s what ministry is. It’s not about having a perfect life. It’s about letting God use your scars to reach those who are bleeding.
When you comfort someone through grief, walk with someone through anxiety, or encourage someone through doubt, you are strengthening your brothers and sisters. You’re doing what Peter did.
God Uses the Broken
Throughout the Bible, we see this pattern:
- Joseph was betrayed, imprisoned, and forgotten—then God used him to save a nation.
- David fell into sin, then God restored him and called him a man after His heart.
- Paul persecuted Christians—then God turned him into one of the greatest apostles.
Pain changed them. God didn’t waste their sorrow. He turned it into strength.
He will do the same for you.
Don’t Hide Your Story
One mistake many people make is hiding their story. They feel ashamed of their past or afraid that others will judge them.
But your testimony isn’t just about your past—it’s about what God has done in your life.
When you share your story, others find hope. When you admit you struggled and show how God carried you, it gives people a reason to believe they can make it too.
You don’t need to have all the answers. You just need to be honest, humble, and willing to speak.
Ministering Through Pain Today
Here are some simple ways to minister through your own pain:
- Be present with someone who is struggling. Just listening can be powerful.
- Share your journey when the moment is right. Let others see your process and your healing.
- Pray for others who face what you once did. Your prayers come from deep understanding.
- Encourage someone with the same comfort God gave you.
- Stay available. Sometimes, just being there is what people need most.
Takeaway
Your pain has a purpose. Your struggle may be the key that unlocks hope for someone else.
Jesus knew Peter’s failure would lead to strength, not just for himself, but for others. And the same is true for you. Let God use your pain to shape your heart, and then use your story to strengthen someone else’s faith.
Remember: God doesn’t waste pain. He redeems it. Have you allowed Him to turn your pain into ministry?